Stimulating his anus

Use your finger pad on the tip of your finger to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nail. The links are independently placed by our Commerce team and do not influence editorial content. Once the finger has been allowed to enter, be still and allow the anal sphincters the chance to become accustomed to the stimulation. For some, it's an acquired taste. It is the equivalent of the female G-spot. Spoon is also a go-to first position for anal sex. Gently and gradually insert your finger s probably best to start with one finger into his anus.

The giver is now ready to seek out the prostate: Have a Seat, Get Comfortable Your partner can assume a seated position; his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows at about a 45 degree angle with his knees pulled in the direction of his chest and somewhat angled outward. They might also have an arm that remains outside the body to stimulate the prostate and perineum from the other angle. Massage gently at first and slowly increase the pressure. Then, he can teach you how to do just what it is that he likes. The objective is to pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud. Have him bend over the bed or a piece of furniture for prostate play with your hands, a toy or strap-on.

Use your finger pad on the tip of your finger to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nail. Put your stereotypes away, friends. It is loaded with sensitive nerve endings, which is quite pleasurable when massaged with fingers. You can also try a different position if you feel more comfortable that way.